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Fifty Shades of Sleep Deprivation

For weeks, I’ve tried to ignore the chatter.  But no matter where I turn, I can’t seem to avoid the literary phenomenon that has become Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James.

My co-workers are reading it…there are references about it on television and in the newspaper.  Even Good Morning America isn’t safe from Fifty-itis – after a recent segment about the book, Robin Roberts was seen grinning while flipping through the pages, talking about “Mommy Porn,” while George Stephanopoulos sat next to her looking extremely uncomfortable!  I mean, it wasn’t even 8:00 a.m. yet!  Spare me.

But I finally took the plunge and added this inconspicuous-looking e-book to my Kindle after hearing rave reviews from a friend.   It sat in my queue for a few weeks before I finally started reading the first chapter a few days ago.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Oh my!

I’ve read my share of romance novels over the years but Fifty Shades of Grey is unlike anything I’ve experienced before.  It is certainly…descriptive…and is probably not a book you’d want to share with your grandmother, but overall I think that it’s all in good fun.  And aside from the racy content and romantic clichés, there’s actually a very sweet love story between the main characters.

More importantly, the amazing popularity and social acceptance of this book is starting a conversation about the importance of stress relief and women’s health and wellness.   Books like Fifty Shades are a harmless way for some women to escape the pressures of their hectic lives and spend time in an unrealistically glamorous world with a rich, sexy billionaire, traveling in expensive sports cars, private jets and yachts.   Not exactly the daily grind for your average working mom!

See what the media is saying about Fifty Shades:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/fifty-shades-of-grey-is-seen-as-improving-womens-sexual-health-and-wellness/2012/05/21/gIQAGx4zfU_story.html

Sleep deprivation, anyone?

I started reading the first Fifty Shades book a few days ago and found myself instantly absorbed in the story.  No, it’s not fine literature, but it’s fluffy and fun and hard to put down! So instead of cooking and cleaning this weekend, I found myself in the world of Ana and Christian and their unusual love story.   I spent most of Saturday and Sunday involved in the book and didn’t get any housework done, so I had to stay up late folding laundry and ironing my work clothes.  I finished “book one” on Sunday night and started the next installment immediately.  Because I had to go to work yesterday, I reserved my reading time for after dinner and again found myself staying up late to read.  Now I’m in the middle of the third book and haven’t slept more than 5 ½ hours per night since Saturday!  Clearly Fifty Shades isn’t good for my health – I’ve been sleep deprived since I clicked on page one of the first book in my Kindle a few days ago.

Oh well…I’d like to continue talking about books, escapism and women’s well-being, but I really have to find out who’s stalking Christian and Ana.

Laters!

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Value yourself and find balance

Yesterday, I met a legend.

I attended a women’s leadership conference in Allentown and met the inspirational women’s rights leader  – Gloria Steinem.   Although her keynote speech focused on the women’s equality movement over the decades, Gloria also spoke about the importance of women finding balance in their lives – one of my favorite topics!

Before she entered the room to speak to the crowd, I had the honor of meeting Gloria in person.   My boss, also a women’s rights leader and director of a non-profit institute for women’s leadership, has known Gloria for many years and arranged a private audience with her before the keynote speech began.  I happened to be in the right place, at the right time, with the right people, and was able to shake hands and say hello to this iconic historical figure.  What a thrill! Read the rest of this entry »

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“Me” Time

           I love Scrabble.  One of my Christmas gifts was the electronic version of Scrabble for playing on the laptop.  I had a chance to enjoy it a couple of times in the week between Christmas and New Year’s, but haven’t played it much since.   As I said in my last blog post, with the demands of work, school and home life, there just isn’t enough time in the day to get everything done and still have a few minutes left over for pursuing my own interests.  I’m not whining about it.  I’m just stating a fact.  It’s true for all working moms – we tend to give up some of our own time in order to be good employees at work and to keep our households in order.  In the scheme of priorities, our own interests and hobbies are outranked by almost everything else.

But this week, I’m going to try something new.  I resolve to carve out one hour per day for myself.  I feel giddy just thinking about it!   If the weather is nice, I’ll take a walk or sit on my patio (after I get home from work and dinner is over) and enjoy the evening sky.  If it’s rainy, I’ll curl up on my sofa and read or maybe play some electronic Scrabble.

Off to a good start

Since Sunday was such a gorgeous day, I decided to walk at one of my favorite spots – Pennypack Ecological Trust in Huntingdon Valley.   It’s a green, forested oasis in the middle of my township, only minutes from where I live.  The trees form a cool canopy of shade and the creek babbles through the forest.  It’s an amazing place and if you live in the Philadelphia area, I highly recommend it for walking, bird watching, hiking or biking. Read the rest of this entry »

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